Tag: Creating Yourself

Finding The Real Me

Over the last few years, and especially the last 12 months, I have realised I have spent most of my life meeting other people’s expectations. Many of my roles involved uniforms, so you put on the uniform, you put on that person. Becoming a naturist helped. Taking the clothes off stripped off the persona, I…


Gratitude,Happiness,Learning,Growth

Gratitude, Happiness, Learning, Growth Once upon a time, as soon as I awoke, usually before the alarm clock, I was instantly out of bed, eager to start the day. These days,most mornings I take time to enjoy the time between waking and rising. Time for contemplation, for being grateful for the life I have. Beginning…


Becoming Who We Are Meant To Be

Some Random Thoughts on Becoming Who We Are Meant To Be.       So, we have visualised the future we want. We have seen the house we want, the car, the lifestyle. Perhaps we have even seen the person we need to become, to make that future a reality. So,is what we are doing…


Happiness,Success,Fulfillment.

Happiness,Success,fulfillment. Three words so important to life, and yet people often get their importance in the wrong order. Most people think that fulfillment is achieving their dreams or desires, and that doing this is success, and that then they will be happy. The fact is, all three are states of being, not destinations. To be…


Life changing decisions

The funny thing is, we make thousands of decisions everyday, and the most trivial of them could be a life changing decision. We decide to take a later train, and meet the girl who becomes the mother of our children. We accept a cigarette from a school friend, and have to struggle to quit many…


Push Past Fear

The Nature of Fear Many times in my life,I have had to push past fear. Sometimes, as with bullies at school,it was my temper that got me through. My nickname at school was Mustard, for my hot temper. The bullies did learn to leave me alone, and pick on someone else. Later, on the football…


Self Limiting Beliefs

Many of our self limiting beliefs have been with us for years, perhaps from when we were children. Perhaps, they were even true at the time, but that does not mean they are still true. Perhaps, when you were five, a seven year old told you you could not run fast. And because five year…


4 Secrets to Manifesting your Dream Lifestyle

4 Secrets to Manifesting your Dream Lifestyle If you have seen the movie or read the book “The Secret”, you know that manifesting your dream lifestyle is possible, by using the Law of Attraction. We know that we attract that which we put out. The problem is, for many of us, what we put out…


Leadership

Today’s theme is Leadership         Leadership requires knowledge on a whole range of subjects, not just the skills of a particular task,job,or industry.           The leader needs to have a vision, and the ability to give it to his team. He needs to be motivated, and help his…


Creating yourself

You don’t need to find who you are. You need to find who you are meant to be. Then you need to learn what you need to know, do what you need to do, to become that person.